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Wednesday, September 30, 2026

"100 Extraordinary Stories of Prayer for Courageous Girls" by Jean Fischer

 The formatting of this review has been altered from our standard layout to make it easier to read.
 
About this book:

  “Praying girls are world-changers! And this deeply inspiring storybook proves it!
    Just for the girls in your life, ages 8 and up, this collection of 100 extraordinary stories of praying women of faith--from the Bible, history, and today--will empower girls to know and understand how praying women have made a difference in the world and how much smaller our faith (and the biblical record) would be without them. Featuring full-page, colorful illustrations alongside the true stories of praying women like Anna, Esther, Hannah, Anne Bradstreet, Shirley Dobson, Lottie Moon, Ida Scudder, Corrie ten Boom, Phillis Wheatley, and dozens more, the stories of these 100 women will encourage and inspire girls to become the praying world-changers God created them to be!”


Series: Part of the “Courageous Girls” line by the publisher. A connecting book is “100 Extraordinary Stories for Courageous Girls” which has been reviewed Here!


Spiritual Content- Not only are women from the Bible (Anna, The Canaanite Woman, Deborah, Esther, Hannah, and others) discussed in this book, but also influential Christian women like Fanny Crosby, Bethany Hamilton-Dirks, Corrie ten Boom, Harriet Tubman, and more) along with missionaries (Gladys Aylward, Amy Carmichael, Faye Edgerton, Lottie Moon and others) martyrs (Betty Stam), and female pastors are also discussed; Each woman from the Bible has the references of where to find her in the Bible; Fifteen women in this collection are from the Bible and two of them are called “Prophetess” (Anna, Deborah); Hildegard of Bingen is also said to be a prophet after receiving visions from God; Each courageous women in this book has one page about her, how prayer affected her life, what the reader get gain from the woman’s prayer, a Scripture correlating, & the page next to it has a painting-like picture; Over a dozen of the women in this book hear from God and Jesus through prayer, dreams, visions, & Him speaking to their hearts; ‘H’s are capital when referring to God and Jesus; 
 
All about God, Jesus, becoming a Christian, prayers/praying, & these women’s faiths; Mentions of Bibles, Bible reading, & Bible studies; Mentions of churches, church going, ministers/pastors, worship, sermons, & Sunday school; Mentions of praising & thanking God; Mentions of witnessing to others & missionaries; Mentions of hymns/songs & those who wrote them; Mentions of salvation & sins; Mentions of Heaven; Mentions of convents, nuns, & priests/bishops (there are a handful of women in this book that were nuns); A few mentions of Quakers teaching that both men and women can talk to God (Margaret Fell who was later put in prison for speaking up about this); A few mentions of when King Henry led the Church of England and anyone who didn’t obey his church’s teachings (including that women cannot read or teach about the Bible) were arrested and put to death; A few mentions of the Church of England deciding what people should do and say; A few mentions of a woman being honored as a saint (long after her death, Saint Birgitta of Sweden); A few mentions of blessings & being blessed; A couple mentions of miracles Jesus did;  
             *Note: Most women in this volume are called Christian, even if online research claims that the woman was a devout Catholic (such as well-known Catholics like Saint Augustine and Mother Terese being called some of the “greatest…Christian[s]” who lived); In one prayer, “Oh, my God!” is exclaimed (Thérèse of Lisieux); 
 
One of the women (Antoinette Brown Blackwell) wanted to become a woman minister and went to school for it, but some men “shouted and stamped their feet”, which didn’t stopped her and she later became the first woman minister in the United States (the message at the end of her page says that her story “inspires other little girls to become ministers or whatever else they wanted to be”); 
 
In the page about Catherine Booth (co-founder of the Salvation Army), it is said that after reading a lot about Jesus, she wanted to preach, so both her and her minister husband preached together in their church (it’s added that “maybe someday God will lead you to preach, like Catherine, or maybe He has a different plan for you.”); 
 
Six other female pastors/ministers (Esther Ibanga, Hildegard of Bingen, Jarena Lee (the first female African American preacher), Phoebe Palmer, Amanda Berry Smith, Sojourner Truth), are shared about in this book with all having their own page; The author says that it’s not usual today to see “pastors of every nationally, both men and women”, but in Jarena Lee’s time, most pastors were “white men” and because of women like her and others, “women fill many roles in the church as group leaders, teachers, counselors, and pastors”); 
 
In Esther Ibanga’s page, it is shared about how she reached out to Muslims in Nigeria and how there is no peace between Christians and Muslims there, so she created an initiative to one day have peace between the Christians and Muslims of Nigeria through Jesus; 
 
It’s shared in Shawn Johnson’s page that God spoke to her saying “…you’ve been afraid of disappointing a lot of people…it’s okay to follow your heart.” and the author notes that being perfect and winning doesn’t matter, how that only thing that does matter is God; 
 
In Julian of Norwich’s page, it’s shared that she asked God for a near-death experience and when suffering a life-threatening disease, she claimed to saw “sixteen visions of Jesus and heaven”; 
 
When sharing about Monica of Hippo, it’s said that her son, Augustine, grew up to join a religious cult and many years later left it (the author says that Augustine became “one of the greatest Christians in history!”); 
 
In Flannery O’Connor’s page, it’s said that she wrote books that were not expected of a Christian author, but wrote books that were centered on sin and were “dark, violent, even shocking. She wanted readers to realize they needed God’s grace.”; Similarly, in Dorthy Sayers’ page, it’s noted how she wrote books about there being consequences for “choosing evil over good” and left her readers thinking they needed to be “saved from making bad choices”; 
 
A bit about Hinduism is shared in Pandita Ramabai’s page (about her growing up in a Hindu family and worshiping “gods, goddesses, tress and animals” and going to temples where these gods were supposed to live; Because of the gods not answering her family’s prayers, she lost faith in the Hindu religion); 
 
In the page about Mary Slessor (a Scottish missionary in Africa) it’s shared how some native African tribes believed in superstition and “demons, spirits, and false gods”; 
 
Some of the women featured in this book questioned if God really existed (or faced people who thought this like their parents (Simone Weil)), but ultimately believed in God later; A mention of Buddhism.
 

Negative Content- In the page about Bethany Hamilton-Dirks’, the shark attack is described (“Bethany felt a pressure on her left arm. A hard pull joggled her arm a few times, and the water around her turned red. Bethany saw her left arm was missing at the shoulder.”); 
 
In Lauren Scruggs’ page, it’s shared that she “walked into the plane’s spinning propeller. She was badly injured…she lost her left eye and her left hand…”; 
 
Many mentions of wars (including World War II, Nazis, & concentration camps), tribal wars, slavery (referring to when it was legal for “white people [to own] slaves”), & former slaves; Mentions of massacres/genocides, murders, & an assassination (Immaculee Ilibagiza, Coretta Scott King, Corrie ten Boom); Mentions of deaths, murders, torture, executions, & prisons (no details; Anne Askew, Darlene Deibler Rose, Betty Stam (the latter who was murdered)); Mentions of deaths & grief (widows for husbands, for parents, a mother for her child and multiple babies that passed away, & for a sister); Mentions of criminals & being treated like a criminal; Mentions of kidnappings & ransom (Betty Stam, Phillis Wheatley who was kidnapped as a child and sold as a slave); Mentions of cancer (Tamara Jolee Metcalfe) & a mention of a child’s death from cancer (Barbara Bush’s daughter); A few mentions of car accidents, death, & almost dying in one; A few mentions of fires & homes being set on fire; A few mentions of divorces & separated parents (Maya Angelou, Shirley Dobson, Niki Taylor); A few mentions of lies & lying; A couple mentions of the Pharaoh ordering all baby boys to be drowned; A couple mentions of partying; A mention of a diving accident that left someone paralyzed (Joni Eareckson Tada); A mention of bullying; 
             *Note: Racism was faced by some of these women and mentioned in their sections & they also fought against it by fighting for equal rights for African Americans and against slavery (Maya Angelou, Mary McLeod Bethune, Fannie Lou Hamer, Coretta Scott King, Amanda Berry Smith, Harriet Beecher Stowe, Sojourner Truth, Harriet Tubman, Phillis Wheatley; This includes mentions of African Americans’ homes being burned and bombed & black people being killed because of the color of their skin); 
 
In Coretta Scott King’s page, the author tells the readers to “pray for peace and acceptance for everyone”;
 
Comments about some of these women originally living in ways that were “not pleasing to God” (Maya Angelou, Dorothy Day) and some that have “messed up” (Amy Grant) before becoming a Christian; 
 
Mentions of gender equality and speaking up about it (in historical settings and/or in the church; Antoinette Brown Blackwell, Margaret Fell, Anne Hutchinson); Mentions of depression, anxiety, & eating disorders (Elana Meyers Taylor, Niki Taylor, Simone Weil); 
 
Mentions of TV shows & movies (Hallmark movies, Make It or Break It, Full House, Touched By An Angel, The Bible, Son of God, The Voice, Are You Smarter Than a 5th Grader, Shark Tank, The Facts of Life, Dancing With the Stars, Bridge to Terabithia, Letters to God, & American Idol); Mentions of politicians (Bill Clinton, Franklin D. Roosevelt, George H. W. Bush, George W. Bush, John F. Kennedy, & Martin Luther King Jr.); Mentions of singers (Amy Grant, Faith Hill, Tim McGraw, & Elvis Presley); A couple mentions of magazines (Vogue, Seventeen).
 
 
Sexual Content- It’s noted on Hannah’s page that in the time of the Bible, men often had more than one wife; When discussing The Woman at the Well, it’s noted that she had “five husbands, and now was living with another man”; 
 
When sharing about Ruth Bell Graham and her prayer for marrying her “Mr. Right”, the author asks the reader “would you like to get married one day? Think about the kind of man you would like to marry. Start praying now and ask God to send you His Mr. Right.”; 
 
In Amy Carmichael’s page, it’s noted that “young girls in Indie were often kidnapped and used in evil ways”;
 
When sharing about Catherine of Siena, it’s said that Catherine had a “huge disagreement” with her parents because they wanted her to get married, so she rebelled;
             *Note: In the page about Lauren Scruggs, it’s shared that after her accident, she learned that “many girls don’t like something about their bodies. She wanted them to know that appearance doesn’t define who they are.”; 
 
In Elana Meyer Taylor’s page, it noted that in college she fell into depression which led into an eating disorder, “Elena decided that eating—or not—was the one thing in her life she could control. It was a bad decision.” and that when she gave her life to Jesus, the depression and eating disorder went away.


                                Written in a bedtime story/devotional format
                                                        208 pages
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My personal Rating- 

—Not rating due to some theology concerns—

I think there’s good lessons and stories shared in this book, but there’s also some that might not be for all Christian families due to some questionable theology parts. At the risk of opening a can of worms about theology and controversial topics in the Christian world, I’m reviewing this book and sharing what I liked and also what I found to be a little concerning.

 

There is a wide variety of women shared about in this book. There are Protestant and Catholic women & also women from our current time to women who lived back in the Bible time period. I knew the majority of them, but had to research about others while reading and reviewing this non-fiction book. My head is spinning after reading about all of these women and researching them as I read during these past couple of days. 

 

There were some theology parts that I disagreed with, so it’s hard for me to rate this book. Some pages were fine, but there were other ones I would probably skip if I was reading this book to a young reader—or at least read with her to explain more context and Biblical thoughts. Some concerns besides the features of eight different female pastors, are comments like God telling one of these young women that it’s “okay to follow your heart”. There’s very well-known Catholics being called some of the “greatest Christians who ever lived” (like Saint Augustine and Mother Teresa) and a couple other women were known for Christian mysticism which caused me to go down more rabbit trails that I expected with this book.

 

Some of these felt like stretches to fill a page of information about. Such as Anna from the Bible, she’s only mentioned in two verses in the Bible, so this book adds to it by assuming how she felt about her widow status and death of her husband. As a technical note, while all of the women from the Bible in this book have a reference on where she is mentioned in the Bible, two of the women’s Scriptures references do not have her actually named in that part. For example, Jochebed (Moses’ mother) is said to be in Exodus 1; 2:1-10 but her name isn’t mentioned in the Bible until Numbers 26:59. Salome (Jesus’ disciples, James and John’s mother) is in Matthew 20:20-25, but isn’t named in that section either (she is in the Book of Mark’s account of this event). I think this could be confusing for young readers. 

 

While any details that could be questionable or not appropriate for middle-grade readers were removed, some of these women had lives that were not “pleasing to God” (as the author of this book put it a few times) so I would caution about young readers researching about some of these women and their stories/pictures as these are highly edited versions shared. Because they are so condensed, some of the stories felt choppy or poorly written. 

 

I didn’t love that there were more than a handful of women in this collection that had the emphasis of speaking up and rebelling against her time period’s rules. While I can be grateful for those who have lead the way into recognizing that women can read the Bible for themselves and speak about it, there was almost a feminist tone to some of these entries with highlighting the “rebelling” part of their stories. Perhaps it’s really just because of it being around the 1600s (and earlier) which was just how it was back then, but it started to feel repetitive with the same words of “speaking up” and “rebelling” being used. 

 

I’m honestly not sure how many young, middle-grade aged readers would be interested in all of these stories. Besides a few from the Bible that are shared about, I would imagine that most 8-12 year olds would probably only know about a dozen of these women. Some of the TV shows and books mentioned in these women’s stories aren’t ones I would recommend for this age group.

 

I would highly suggest for a parent to read this book with their girl rather than give this book to her to read by herself. I enjoyed the connecting book “100 Extraordinary Stories for Courageous Girls” as it featured more well-known figures and had better summaries, but would probably pass on this book due to some concerns listed above.


 

Parents please note:

* This book does have a story of martyrs (Anne Askew and Betty Stam), others who have faced concentration camps (Corrie ten Boom and Edith Stein), and those who were tortured (Darlene Deibler Rose). While it never is detailed in how deaths or torture happens, there might should be caution for reading it at night to young girls with overactive imagination in case of nightmares. Instead, choosing a different woman’s story to read at night or reading theses more difficult stories during the day and discussing it then might be an idea.  

* There is some assuming on the Biblical women (like with Anna is only mentioned in two verses in the Bible) in this book. Homeschool parents could expand on the overall story or add about these women to their curriculum when studying the chapters of the Bible the women are mentioned in.  

* If researched online, there are photographs of models in this book (Kathy Ireland and Niki Taylor) shown in skimpy bikinis or provocative photos.

* There is a total of eight women in this book who are said to have preached and/or are called female pastors/preachers.

 


 

See y’all on Friday with a new review! 



*BFCG may (Read the review to see) recommend this book by this author. It does not mean I recommend all the books by this author.

Monday, August 4, 2025

"Earth’s Epic Start" by Costi & Christyne Hinn

About this book:

  “This entertaining and engaging study of Genesis 1-3 helps middle-grade readers gain a greater understanding and appreciation for God’s amazing creation.
     Where do you begin to know the greatness of God? At the very start, of course! God created EVERYTHING, including your one-of-a-kind kid. Earth’s Epic Start is a fun way for your child to explore the Bible and build a foundation for a future spent studying God’s Word.
    In addition to reading the verses from each day’s study, kids will encounter fun facts, definitions of key terms, questions that reinforce the daily reading, and a memory verse.
     This in-depth study of humankind’s creation and fall will equip your child to… 
-       know God in a deeper way
-       grow in knowledge of how God created everything
-       meet ordinary people who God used in extraordinary ways
-       stand strong in the truth and never be fooled by lies
-       be able to share with others about how amazing God is
Your child’s faith will grow as they learn about Earth’s epic start!”


Series: Does not seem to be connected to any other book. 


Spiritual Content- This Bible study covers Genesis 1-3, but also references many other Scriptures to read and look-up as well; 'H's are capital when referring to God in the study, but most of the Scriptures written out are in ESV which does not capitalize them; In the final week, sin is discussed and explained; In the final pages, repenting from our sin & having salvation though Jesus Christ is shared; 
             *Note: When referring to the closest star to earth (Proxima Centauri), it’s noted that it would take 950 million years to walk to it from earth; One ‘Did you know?’ fact shared is that plants can’t survive millions of years without the sun and adds that plants were created on day 3 and the sun was created on day 4; A fun fact shares that the earth is about 6,000-10,000 years old (Week 7), but there is a multiple choice question that has the options of “A. 1-2 million years old  B. 4-10 billion years old  C. 6,000-10,000 years old  D. 120,000-150,000” to test the reader (with the correct answer being C).
 

Negative Content- A reference to divorce in Week 8 with the introduction of the week’s reading saying, “God cares so much about marriage—it is a reflection of His love for us. He also made marriage so important, that a male and female who get married are called to stay together as one team, just as Mark 10:9 states, “that therefore God has joined together, let man not separate.””; 
             *Note: Mentions of the painting the Mona Lisa by Leonardo Da Vinci & Michelangelo’s paintings on the Sistine Chapel; A mention of Legos.
 
 
Sexual Content- It’s noted that God “made two genders, causing some to be born boys (male), and some to be born girls (female). The creation account details how God always intended for there to be just two genders. No matter what anyone might tell you, God’s way is the best way. He wants girls to be girls, and boys to be boys. Both are created equal and special in their own way!” in Week 6.
                                                        96 pages
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My personal Rating- 

I rarely review non-fiction—let alone Bible studies, but when I saw about this one, I became curious about it. There were a few questions throughout it that I thought might be confusing to younger readers, so I would suggest a parent or adult be nearby to answer any questions from the kiddo. Perhaps even doing it together would be the best case for some families. Many of the question blanks will be filled in not with a direct quote from the corresponding Scripture, but require the kiddo to answer it in his or her own way. For example in Week 3, there is one that goes “Genesis 1:2  What did God use to create everything?” and the answer would be nothing, because the world was formless and void according to Scripture. In Week 8, one question says “Genesis 2:25  Adam and Eve were both naked and not ashamed. Why were they unashamed and innocent?” That particular Scripture doesn’t share the why, just the fact that they were, so the answer to this question requires a little more thought and discussion with an adult. 

 

Some of the days were heavier with work like answering a few questions, but then other days that only had one question and a drawing exercise or multiple-choice question. From a technical standpoint, it felt a little uneven in that way, particular because there was a lot of handwriting and answering questions during the entire week. 

 

There were a couple of the fun facts or ‘did you know?s’ that I had to research because they were worded in ways I wasn’t familiar with. 

 

I appreciated that when discussing Genesis 1:24-31 in Week 6, the authors share: “Nothing else is said to be made in the image of God except mankind. God loves all His creation, but only humans had God breathe life into them. He made two genders, causing some to be born boys (male), and some to be born girls (female). The creation account details how God always intended for there to be just two genders. No matter what anyone might tell you, God’s way is the best way. He wants girls to be girls, and boys to be boys. Both are created equal and special in their own way! God wants us to know our identity and the Bible teaches that we are unique among all living things because we are made in God’s image.”Some children who have not been exposed to the opposite thought of this might have questions about why someone would think there’s more than two genders, but I think it was worded in a way that probably wouldn’t stand out to the reader unless there were already questions about this topic. 

 

I think this Bible study would be best for those who already have at least a light understanding of the accounts of creation and the Fall as some activities or fun acts shared get a bit ahead of the Scriptures being read. Overall, it was a pretty fun book; I would think it could be done in homeschooling families or expanded with more activities and fun projects for Sunday School lessons. 

 

 

See y’all on Wednesday with a new review! 




*BFCG may (Read the review to see) recommend this book by this author. It does not mean I recommend all the books by this author.

*I received this book for free from the Publisher (Harvest Kids) for this honest review.

Monday, November 6, 2023

"Our Faithful God Devotional" by Katie Davis Majors

About this book:

  “The bestselling author of Kisses from Katie takes you on a journey through Scripture to discover more about who God is and how much He loves you, in 52 weeks of power-packed devotional readings.
    In a world of uncertainty, we can find peace in knowing that the God who carried His people through the desert, the God who calmed the seas, the God who promised His presence, is still our God today. In this unique five-day-a-week devotional, featuring a flexible format that adapts to your schedule, Katie Davis Majors invites you into a yearlong experience of immersing yourself in the truth of who God is. As Katie has discovered, the more time we spend understanding the richness, beauty, and kindness of God, the more quickly our hearts turn toward Him with our needs and our secrets, our hurts and our longings. Our Faithful God Devotional will help you draw daily closer to the One who sees you, who loves you, and who holds each moment in His hands.”


Series: No, a stand-alone devotional. 


Spiritual Content- Romans 16:25-27 at the beginning; This devotional consists of 52 weeks for five days, reading a chapter of the Bible each day and has discussion questions to reflect upon and suggestions for things to do (seven of the days end in a prayer to pray); At the very end of the book, there’s a section on putting your faith in Jesus Christ; All about, many talks about, & many mentions of God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, Him loving us, His purpose for us, His love for us, trusting Him, & forgiveness; 'H's are capital when referring to God; Many Scriptures are quoted, discussed, & listed (versions used are ESV, NKJV, & NLT); Many mentions of those, events, & books in the Bible; Mentions of Bibles & Bible reading; Mentions of prayers, praying, & blessings; Mentions of being in eternity with God & Heaven; Mentions of miracles; Mentions of churches, church going, worshiping and praising God, & a ministry; Mentions of persecution; Mentions of sins & sinners; A few mentions of pastors/preachers, worship artists, & authors; A few mentions of baptisms; A few mentions of books & authors (quotes are shared from ‘Sensing Jesus’ by Zack Eswine & ‘Man: The Dwelling Place of God’ by A. W. Tozer); A couple mentions of the M’Cheyne Reading Plan (designed by minister Robert Murray M’Cheyne); A couple mentions of hymns; A mention of missionaries; 
             *Note: The word “meditate/meditating/meditative” (on Scriptures or on God’s faithful in your life) is used seventeen times; Mentions of Satan whispering lies to us; Mentions of evil doers (in the Bible); Mentions of demon-possessed people (in the Bible); Mentions of idols & pagan gods (in the Bible). 
 

Negative Content- Mentions of murders, attempted murders, & murderers (in the Bible); Mentions of deaths & grief (including grieving for mothers, a baby, and dear friends; in both our world and in the Bible); Mentions of slavery, beatings, & prisons (in the Bible); Mentions of injuries (barely-above-not-detailed); Mentions of alcohol, alcoholism, a drunk, sobering up, & addictions (including those who died from their addictions); Mentions of lies & deception; Mentions of jealousy (in the Bible); A couple mentions of Stephen being stoned to death & John being beheaded (in the Bible); A mention of gossip; A mention of human waste; 
             *Note: Mentions of anxiety; A mention of HIV; A mention of researching diverse schools; A mention of a brand name (Sharpie); A mention of the Covid-19 pandemic; A mention of Instagram; A mention of Zillow; A mention of FaceTime.
 
 
Sexual Content- A few mentions of an eunuch (in the Bible); A mention of circumcision; 
             *Note: Mentions of Biblical people being naked (Adam and Eve & a demon-possessed man) & us being naked in front of God (because of our sins); A couple mentions of a man having two wives (in the Bible); A mention of a woman’s daughter being assaulted (not said if physically or sexually). 
                                {Non-Fiction} 
                                              336 pages


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My personal Rating- 

More so than most devotionals I’ve read and reviewed, this one has the reader reading a lot of Scriptures over the time—and they aren’t written out, you need to have your Bible right there with you. Another thing is that it’s only a chapter a day (for four days and then a reread of them on the fifth day), which feels much more manageable in the daily, busy lives we live. I really liked those aspects of this devotional.  

Whenever I review a devotional book for BFCG, I always read it in one sitting and will later choose to see if I’ll go back to it in a couple months to read in the proper way. With this one, I definitely plan to do that because I’d like to savor and learn from this one more. 

I will admit that I wasn’t the biggest fan of all the parts that encouraged to put yourself in a Biblical person’s shoes or imagine how they felt at a particular time, but elsewise, I really enjoyed this devotional. I would suggest it for 16+, but it could definitely be read by those in high school and those older as well. 
 

 

See y’all on Friday with a new review! 




*BFCG may (Read the review to see) recommend this book by this author. It does not mean I recommend all the books by this author.

*I received this book for free from the Publisher (Multnomah) for this honest review.

Monday, July 17, 2023

"Before Your Tween Daughter Becomes a Woman" by Robin Jones Gunn

About this book:

  “Your little girl is growing quickly. You want to prepare her for the changes that are already happening to her body. But how?
    In Before Your Tween Daughter Becomes a Woman, bestselling author Robin Jones Gunn provides heart-level mentoring that will help you and your young daughter grow closer rather than drifting apart as she reaches adolescence. This is your chance—not for having “the talk”—but for beginning a conversation that will continue as your daughter grows into the beautiful young woman God created her to be.
   Talking about periods and other natural changes doesn’t have to be awkward. Even if your own experience was less than ideal, there’s no need to be nervous. Instead, you can make it a fun, memorable occasion that helps to strengthen the bond between you and your daughter. In each chapter, you’ll find ideas to boost your confidence as you create a pathway into this next season for your young girl.
   This book includes
   -ideas for how to broach the subject with your daughter,
   -pitfalls to avoid, and
  -encouraging stories from other moms.”


Series: As of now, no. 


Spiritual Content- Scriptures are referenced, quoted, & discussed; Many talks & many mentions of God, raising your daughter to love Jesus, being specially created for a divine purpose, & honoring God’s design for women; 'H's are capital when referring to God; Mentions of those & events in the Bible (including Esther); Mentions of thanking God, prayers, praying, & blessings over food; Mentions of churches, church going, church events, & services; Mentions of blessings & being Blessed; A few mentions of blessing your children (the author would typically use one based off of “May the Lord bless you and keep you” with her children); A mention of a Bible study; A mention of Mass; 
             *Note: Mentions of Jewish customs (including Bar Mitzvahs & Bat Mitzvahs) & High Church customs; A few mentions of some cultures observing menstruation with the moon, Zodiac signs, or praying to Mother Earth; A couple mentions of angels. 
 

Negative Content- A few mentions of wars; A few mentions of jealousy; A few mentions of eye rolling; A mention of a car accident & major injuries; A mention of childhood abuse; A mention of prison; A mention of lies; A mention of being made fun of at school; A mention of hearing people use God’s name in an unsacred way; A mention of gossip; 
             *Note: There is a story shared about a young girl disliking the mole on her face and being very happy and improving her self-image after her mother lets her get it removed; Mentions of being a safe haven for your daughter to come with questions and support (including a positive part of doing that is so the daughter has a less likely chance of sneaking around or gaining answers from other sources that don’t have her best interest at heart); Mentions of books, movies, fictional characters, & actresses/actors; A few mentions of Google & Siri; A mention of a twelve-year-old telling her mother she wanted plastic surgery and a tattoo; A mention of a teen girl “waiting and hoping for the day her mother would start being her friend as well as her mother”.
 
 
Sexual Content- This book is not about having “the birds and the bees” conversation, but discussing about puberty and upcoming changes with your daughter; Many mentions of puberty, periods, developing breasts and hair, hormones, organs and body parts, reproduction, & the honor of being a woman; Mentions of biology books, male and female organs and body parts, & the author explaining to her daughter “how a husband and wife bring their bodies together”; Mentions of period pain and seeing a family physician to “eliminate any potential issues, which can range from endometriosis and cysts to ovarian tumors and cervical cancer”; Mentions of dating; A few mentions of the sacred gift of marriage and sharing your body in it; A few mentions of some family members not being the safest place for your kids to be around & hinting to sexual abuse; A few mentions of having conversations about sexual intimacy & sex; A few mentions of having “the talk” or “the birds and the bees” conversation; A few mentions of eggs & sperm; A few mentions of a young teen pregnancy and the mother making the fear-driven choice to end the pregnancy (& later discussing it with her daughter); A few mentions of kisses & saving those kisses; A few mentions of crude and sexual words or terms being used (by young adults and teens that do not know what it means, none of the words are written); A couple mentions of sexuality & it being sacred; A couple mentions of seeing a man grab his wife’s breast in public and speaking to her in a derogatory way (the wife laughed it off, saying that “boys will be boys”; the author was in shock and sad to see that); A couple mentions of blossoming & late bloomers; A couple mentions of premenopausal; A couple mentions of boys not having something (like a period) that happens to them every month; 
             *Note: A letter is shared from a woman who was a tomboy growing up and her mother would affirm her (female) identity and that she “wasn’t confused about the way God created me because my mom made it clear that it was okay to be a strong, capable, no-frills, athletic woman”; Mentions of a girl’s privacy and teaching her that no one should touch or see the parts of herd body that are covered by underwear or a bathing suit & teaching her self-defense; A few mentions of a mother referring to menstruation as “the curse”; A few mentions of bras; A couple mentions of some people today having trouble defining the word woman; A mention of female circumcision that has “long been common in parts of Africa and the Middle East”; A mention of a harem (in the Bible); A mention of a girl’s first period being healthy, normal and natural but being shrouded in silence in Western culture; A mention of bachelorette parties; A mention of a daughter possibly being concerned over her weight after a comment from someone; A mention of a girl believing she had a flat rear end; A mention of shaving; A mention of swooning over Gilbert Blythe.

                                  Non-Fiction Book for Parents 
                                                        176 pages


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This book is for mothers, so the ratings here are for moms of these age groups:

For Moms of Pre Teens- 

For Moms of New Teens- 

For Moms of Early High School Teens- 

For Moms of Older High School Teens- 

My personal Rating- 

This is probably the second book I’ve ever reviewed on BFCG that is aimed specifically for mothers, but I think this guide is a great idea and since I’ve enjoyed many of Robin Jones Gunn’s other books (fiction and non-fiction), I decided to review it. 

Let’s first note: This book is not for young girls, it’s for their moms, grandmothers, aunts, dads, and other parental figures in their lives that want to encourage, uplift, and be able to explain things to their loved girl during an important time in their lives. 

Personally, I thought this book was interesting because of the advice and ideas in it. Now, I can’t say I would have loved all of these ideas as a tween (it truly depends on each girl!), but I can see the heart and thought process behind them and was glad to see alternate ideas given as well. 

I feel like topics were handled very delicately with the honor that should be there on these important topics, and I really appreciate seeing that. It should be noted that while this book does discuss a lot about talking to your tween, it’s not too late to start a conversation if she’s older or the mother feels like it’s “too late”. Since you’re reading this content review, I’m going to assume that you care about what she reads and consumes—whether that be fiction or otherwise. I’d like to encourage you, mothers, to be that safe place for your girl to discuss things with you, no matter her age. 

 

 

See y’all on Friday with a new review! 



*BFCG may (Read the review to see) recommend this book by this author. It does not mean I recommend all the books by this author.

*I received an Advance Reader Copy of this book for free from the Publisher (Tyndale) for this honest review; Some things may be different or missing in the final edition, but I hope and pray this review covers the main content well.